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How parents should take care about mental health of their children who appeared for board exams?

Hi friends, today’s topic is very important for parents of board exam students & also can help to other parents who have their children in higher standards.

Firstly I would like to tell you that in India generally parents take decisions about what their children will study, what field they have to choose, at where they will study. Children have no right to follow their own dreams & take decision by themselves. Schooling have percentage oriented education so your children will be busy all time to score high in exams and this will not allow your child to develop in their own way like in some art work, some sports, hidden talent and good interest other than school subjects.

So here I am sharing the way how you can encourage your child and help them in the peak time of their career by supporting them.

  1. Communicate with your child as a friend always. This will cause mental relief to your child. Don’t ever think that fear of parents teaches respect to your child. Fear causes frustration not respect.
  2. Educate your child about different fields of career. Opportunities in different fields. If you don’t know deeply about that then send your child to someone who can explain everything about every fields.
  3. Try to explore your child’s mind. What they want to do, what dreams they have in their mind. If children are confused or don’t know much then help them by providing essential information.
  4. When you as a parent understand that what your child want to do or what type of dreams they have then give them a path & tell them that for complition of your dreams these are the ways available & let them choose it by themselves. 
  5. Never differentiate in Girl & Boy. Don’t think that boy can do anything, anywhere & girl can’t. Allow both of them same way. If boys can be confident to live alone in hostels or away from parents and in other city or country then girls can also be confident but their parents are not confident. This is the reason that girls are less educated, have less freedom & have low confidence level just because of parents. As a parent you have to trust your child  (Girl / Boy) & teach them self defense to protect themselves.
  6. At last, when you know that what your children wants to do then allow them to do it. Parents have to support them in every good and bad experiences.

This is how your child will be mentally healthy & more active whatever they choose to do & will get success. For that parents has to stand with them always.
Keep your child healthy & Make them successful with your support.

Thank you for Reading. ☺

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